Today was Calvin's first day of Kindergarten, and in those 2 brief hours of relative quiet and peace, I realized that this summer nearly wrecked me.
I have come to realize that I am a mostly left-brained mostly introvert. Here are some things I enjoy:
I have come to realize that I am a mostly left-brained mostly introvert. Here are some things I enjoy:
- routine
- quiet
- schedules
- check off lists
- plans
- sleeping
- completing chores
- crafting quietly/alone
Here are some things that I don't totally enjoy:
- chaos
- arranging play dates every day
- repetitive whining
- continuously making snacks/doing dishes
- swimming
- nagging my kids about chores
- everyone talking to me at once
I will own up that I could do better about a lot of these things. I'm reading a book about the brain, and the author is continually pointing out that the brain can be taught to enjoy new things if it does it enough times. I could also be a more "with it" parent that can set a summer schedule and stick to it. Maybe that will be my goal for next summer.
Travel is often a summer time activity, Ben and I did some trips in the spring, and he took the older kids on some big trips this summer while I stayed home and completed chores. I did take the kids on a road trip to Wyoming and we ended the summer with a family road trip to Idaho.
June was spent at the city pool because we had a 1 month pass that we wanted to make the most of. July was spent traveling mostly, the annual pilgrimage to Boston for Ben and the girls was almost 2 weeks.
August was just really dragged out anticipation of our ID trip and back to school.
All this to say, I am not one who mourns back to school time.
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