Monday, August 27, 2018

Summer wrap up

Today was Calvin's first day of Kindergarten, and in those 2 brief hours of relative quiet and peace, I realized that this summer nearly wrecked me.

I have come to realize that I am a mostly left-brained mostly introvert. Here are some things I enjoy:

  • routine
  • quiet
  • schedules
  • check off lists
  • plans
  • sleeping
  • completing chores
  • crafting quietly/alone
Here are some things that I don't totally enjoy:
  • chaos
  • arranging play dates every day
  • repetitive whining
  • continuously making snacks/doing dishes
  • swimming
  • nagging my kids about chores
  • everyone talking to me at once

I will own up that I could do better about a lot of these things. I'm reading a book about the brain, and the author is continually pointing out that the brain can be taught to enjoy new things if it does it enough times. I could also be a more "with it" parent that can set a summer schedule and stick to it. Maybe that will be my goal for next summer.

Travel is often a summer time activity, Ben and I did some trips in the spring, and he took the older kids on some big trips this summer while I stayed home and completed chores. I did take the kids on a road trip to Wyoming and we ended the summer with a family road trip to Idaho.

June was spent at the city pool because we had a 1 month pass that we wanted to make the most of. July was spent traveling mostly, the annual pilgrimage to Boston for Ben and the girls was almost 2 weeks.
August was just really dragged out anticipation of our ID trip and back to school.

All this to say, I am not one who mourns back to school time.

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